The Alternative Way We Could Have Met
I had to connect with my shadow-self to get to my truth, but I feel like every time I do, I am healing my soul.
The Three Phases
Do your thing. Be stubborn if that suits you. Make mistakes, learn great life lessons, and reinvent yourself over and over again. Be free. Trust in the Divine – That’s when real magic begins to happen.
This “Step-Mom” Has Personal Boundaries – FIRM ones
The healthier and more balanced I am, the more I have to offer Dear Alexa. That includes self-care, living my most fulfilling life no matter what our circumstances, and (a resounding YES) enforcing personal boundaries.
How and when parental alienation started
Dear Alexa’s wings have been clipped under the guise of total freedom… and there is nothing her loving father or I can do about it.
When Healthy & Happy is Threatening
This healthy, happy, and beautiful individual was coming into her own and doing her own thing – Independence. Rather than embracing this amazing person Dear Alexa was becoming, mom successfully squashed her happiness.
We’ve Officially Done “Everything Possible”
Is admitting “defeat” actually defeat if it ends a bloody battle?
How can you heal when you don’t know what you’re healing from?
Dropping the illusion that we can fix it, free’s us to let this experience unfold. This non-attachment allows us to move past the fear of being hated and into a far more empowered space of understanding the tender truth behind the façade of hate.
An Inconvenient Truth
Dear Alexa – By now you know that I live my life by a set of rules. A code of conduct. I […]
Givers, Takers and Thieves
Givers give a nickel.
Takers take a dime.
Thieves demand a quarter.
Stepmom Baggage
You won this stepmom-fearing, step-baggage carrying, “cool aunt” over with ease. This proud Step Mom is ready to welcome you home with arms wide open when you’re ready to return to us. Only this time, I’m not letting go.
Parental Alienation Hard Truth #4 – Why You Need to RISE and BE the Light that Guides Your Children Home
As painful as the alienation experience is, I believe reconnection is the natural course. Showing Dear Alexa that love is unconditional and light is infinite is how her father and I have been able to RISE.