Parental Alienation Hard Truth #3 – Making Bad Decisions for a Higher Good
Stepping back and allowing some seriously bad “sans parenting” was painful – but necessary to break the “dad’s entirely to blame” united front.
Parental Alienation Hard Truth #2 – Love is NOT a Battlefield
Dear Alexa is better off by our stepping back and allowing truth to unfold. We make every effort to disengage from mom so this situation can calm down. This gives Dear Alexa a much-needed break to rediscover her own feelings and thoughts about who Dad is.
Parental Alienation Hard Truth #1 – There is No Remedy
We’ve released far more than we’re comfortable with. We’ve allowed difficult experiences to unfold naturally even knowing the full impact and consequences. From this space of calm that we’ve created, the truth is slowly rising.
Allowing things to unfold naturally
Sometimes a good parent needs to step back and simply love and support an amazing daughter’s budding ideas and choices. Trust that one day she’ll be making plans to spend time with us – All the wiser for having this experience.
BE the LIGHT that guides your children home
Reconnection is not only possible – Your relationship can be better than ever – IF you handle the disconnect in a positive way.
Dear Birth Mom – Restrict Dear Alexa’s reconnection with Dad and you will soon encounter a similar experience
We know how horrible it would be to have Dear Alexa leave and not communicate for over a year – We know because we experienced it.
Failures and consequences may suck… But consider the alternative
Allowing kids to fail doesn’t mean we’re bad parents. It means we’re showing them that they have every resource available within themselves to pick themselves up and go again.
Growth Experiences
Can we skip difficult growth experiences? Or does our avoidance only delay and magnify the discomfort we naturally experience while growing into the people we want to become.
NOT Traumatized…
Until we are able to reconnect more fully, we await these lovely glimpses of the amazing person you are discovering.
Conversations With "Dear Alexa"Parent's Perspective - Rising Above the ConflictThoughts on Growth & Becoming
Breadcrumbs
Some day you will discover that every part of you is wonderful, good enough, and loved unconditionally by your father.
A Very Karmic Merry Christmas
You have the power to alter your reality. If that concept feels too big, know that in any given moment, you have the power to change your mind… and that will change your reality.
Stepmom’s “Quirky” Beliefs in Action
I can’t wait for the day when we get to delve deep into these concepts of altering our reality – In another time/space dimension, I believe we already are.