The Three Phases
Do your thing. Be stubborn if that suits you. Make mistakes, learn great life lessons, and reinvent yourself over and over again. Be free. Trust in the Divine – That’s when real magic begins to happen.
How and when parental alienation started
Dear Alexa’s wings have been clipped under the guise of total freedom… and there is nothing her loving father or I can do about it.
When Healthy & Happy is Threatening
This healthy, happy, and beautiful individual was coming into her own and doing her own thing – Independence. Rather than embracing this amazing person Dear Alexa was becoming, mom successfully squashed her happiness.
Step Away from the Cocoa Puffs
You cannot change the alienation experience. You can only take tender loving care of yourself, so you are the healthy and happy parent your children return to.
How can you heal when you don’t know what you’re healing from?
Dropping the illusion that we can fix it, free’s us to let this experience unfold. This non-attachment allows us to move past the fear of being hated and into a far more empowered space of understanding the tender truth behind the façade of hate.
Something’s Gotta Give
Dear Karma – Thank you for the little reminder that while the truth may not have set us free in court, it will ultimately set Dear Alexa free. And that’s all that really matters.
Givers, Takers and Thieves
Givers give a nickel.
Takers take a dime.
Thieves demand a quarter.
When Nuclear is the Only Option
At what point do we finally admit to ourselves that mom has already escalated matters to a point where we question our personal safety?
Used Against Me in Court – The Dad’s First “Real Post”
My loving words and memories were used against me in a court of law. So twisted beyond recognition that the judge didn’t know what to believe.
Parental Alienation Hard Truth #3 – Making Bad Decisions for a Higher Good
Stepping back and allowing some seriously bad “sans parenting” was painful – but necessary to break the “dad’s entirely to blame” united front.
Parental Alienation Hard Truth #1 – There is No Remedy
We’ve released far more than we’re comfortable with. We’ve allowed difficult experiences to unfold naturally even knowing the full impact and consequences. From this space of calm that we’ve created, the truth is slowly rising.
Twisted beyond recognition
I hold a space of loving compassion for any parent who has had to make the impossible choice to not reach out because of the resulting emotional abuse inflicted on the children by an alienating parent.