Kindness is not weakness

“Kindness. What a simple way to tell another struggling soul that there is love to be found in the world.”

Alison Malee

This quote was listed as #1 “Be kind” on the new Judge’s “Ten tips to success” in family court.  After all the terrible rulings with the previous judge (and friend of mom), I am feeling beyond blessed to have been reassigned to a Judge that promotes such a light-infused perspective.  All I can say is – Thank you dear Universe!

Our hope is to settle and avoid trial – Despite everyone encouraging it like it’s the only way to rectify the situation.  Most of these legalese advice givers have no idea the trauma of parental alienation.  Dragging this out in court only exacerbates the situation.  It keeps mom in “rare form” as she defends her alienation tactics like her life depends upon it.  Then all that hostile energy is unloaded on Dear Alexa in the form of lies and other degrading remarks about Dad to make sure she’s “team mom” all the way.

No – A lengthy legal battle is definitely not the way to go.  It would actually destroy all the positive progress we’ve been seeing.

We learned that there are times when you need to confront a dark situation by forcing facts to be seen, but most of the time, it’s best to step back and simply allow the brilliance of truth and light to unfold and shine naturally.

The good part is that Dear Alexa has grown tremendously over the past several months under the guidance of an amazing therapist.  Which is, perhaps, the reason why mom has recently been putting up roadblocks and delaying therapy.  Today Dad held mom’s feet to the fire on a joint call with legal counsel to ensure that Dear Alexa continues to get the therapeutic tools she needs to recognize the truth of this experience.

For it’s the truth that mom fears most and she’s doing everything in her power to conceal it.

With the right therapy, that truth will eventually set Dear Alexa free.