You’ll soon be heading home from your trip with mom. Spending just four days abroad rather than the full three weeks as planned. Mom was determined to prevent you from spending time with Dad over the holidays. Unfortunately for you, this left very little focus on creating a Happy Holiday experience.
Here’s the thing about being “anti”-anything/anyone. When you’re so focused on taking something from another or seeking retribution to harm another, there’s very little time and energy left to be “for”-anything/anyone. In essence –
This trip was a very Karmic tribute to my dear friend the Universe.
Your mother got exactly what she wanted. A whole lot of time and effort went into making sure that dad wouldn’t get even a single day with you over your Winter Break. This is a whole lot of time and effort that could have been invested in creating a beautiful Holiday experience for you. The Universe aligned according to the energy of the intent – Not as demanded and forced into place via court intervention. A little insight that anything we desire from a dark headspace that harms another is intrinsically flawed.
Dark Headspace: Allowing our thoughts and focus to run amok with: 1) all the reasons why others are to blame; 2) destructive pursuits of seeking revenge; and 3) efforts to gain more than at the expense of another.
Moi
To return to my Quantum Physics and Law of Attraction beliefs, every dark headspace pursuit is flawed in that our focus – and thus our energy – is attracting more of the same… Amplified by the extent of our emotional state. While these actions may harm another as intended, it is Karmically guaranteed that they will harm the one inflicting them.
Alt: Light Headspace: Actively choosing our thoughts and point of attraction to live in a state of joy. It includes: 1) owning our stuff rather than seeking to dump it on another; 2) a feeling of immense gratitude for everything we already have rather than focusing on lack; and 3) supporting each other knowing that everyone wins when we win in this game called Life.
Moi 2.0
Dear Alexa – You have the power to alter your reality. For in any given moment, you have the power to change your mind.
That includes everything.
- You can change your mind about school and decide you like hanging with your friends and the freedom of exploring who you are.
- You can change your mind about any labels or limitations you’ve placed on yourself and simply decide that you are brave and confident.
- You can change your mind about your divorced parental situation and open your heart to our outpouring of love that’s always available to you.
As for our Holiday… We decorated a tree, drank pink prosecco mimosas, gave the best white elephant gag gift of a 9 foot tall inflatable Santa riding a Harley, ate lots of winter-body friendly pastas with friends and family, and snuggled in bed with the dogs watching Hallmark Christmas movies.
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