Conversations, Thoughts & Perspectives
Conversations, Thoughts & Perspectives
Dropping the illusion that we can fix it, free’s us to let this experience unfold. This non-attachment allows us to move past the fear of being hated and into a far more empowered space of understanding the tender truth behind the façade of hate.
We heal our soul by loving and accepting every fragmented part – Loving our Whole Self unconditionally.
Every positive experience with Dad is typically followed by a few setbacks when mom senses your happiness.
As painful as the alienation experience is, I believe reconnection is the natural course. Showing Dear Alexa that love is unconditional and light is infinite is how her father and I have been able to RISE.
Stepping back and allowing some seriously bad “sans parenting” was painful – but necessary to break the “dad’s entirely to blame” united front.
Dear Alexa is better off by our stepping back and allowing truth to unfold. We make every effort to disengage from mom so this situation can calm down. This gives Dear Alexa a much-needed break to rediscover her own feelings and thoughts about who Dad is.
We’ve released far more than we’re comfortable with. We’ve allowed difficult experiences to unfold naturally even knowing the full impact and consequences. From this space of calm that we’ve created, the truth is slowly rising.
Reconnection is not only possible – Your relationship can be better than ever – IF you handle the disconnect in a positive way.
We know how horrible it would be to have Dear Alexa leave and not communicate for over a year – We know because we experienced it.
Stay weird my Dear Alexa. Life is so much more fun that way.
Dear Birth Mother – I wish you nothing but happiness. May you find closure and release so that you may move on with your life. May you create and attract from a positive space so that you may experience love and connection.
To now know that you are already recognizing alienation tactics and learning how to set healthy personal boundaries at the tender age of 14 makes my heart sing!
