Parental Alienation Hard Truth #3 – Making Bad Decisions for a Higher Good
Stepping back and allowing some seriously bad “sans parenting” was painful – but necessary to break the “dad’s entirely to blame” united front.
Parental Alienation Hard Truth #2 – Love is NOT a Battlefield
Dear Alexa is better off by our stepping back and allowing truth to unfold. We make every effort to disengage from mom so this situation can calm down. This gives Dear Alexa a much-needed break to rediscover her own feelings and thoughts about who Dad is.
Parental Alienation Hard Truth #1 – There is No Remedy
We’ve released far more than we’re comfortable with. We’ve allowed difficult experiences to unfold naturally even knowing the full impact and consequences. From this space of calm that we’ve created, the truth is slowly rising.
Allowing things to unfold naturally
Sometimes a good parent needs to step back and simply love and support an amazing daughter’s budding ideas and choices. Trust that one day she’ll be making plans to spend time with us – All the wiser for having this experience.
BE the LIGHT that guides your children home
Reconnection is not only possible – Your relationship can be better than ever – IF you handle the disconnect in a positive way.
Dear Birth Mom – You cannot create an amazing life while attempting to destroy another.
Dear Birth Mother – I wish you nothing but happiness. May you find closure and release so that you may move on with your life. May you create and attract from a positive space so that you may experience love and connection.
BRAVA GIRL!
To now know that you are already recognizing alienation tactics and learning how to set healthy personal boundaries at the tender age of 14 makes my heart sing!
Failures and consequences may suck… But consider the alternative
Allowing kids to fail doesn’t mean we’re bad parents. It means we’re showing them that they have every resource available within themselves to pick themselves up and go again.
Growth Experiences
Can we skip difficult growth experiences? Or does our avoidance only delay and magnify the discomfort we naturally experience while growing into the people we want to become.
Light Always Prevails
The “shy” and “socially anxious” labels you’ve recently assumed are temporarily blocking your light. Just know that the truth of who you are has always been focused on uniting everyone – In making others feel seen and valued.
Own Your Stuff or It Will Own You
Owning our stuff is the greatest opportunity for personal growth and reclaiming our personal power
This is Your Experience
Our most challenging experiences may influence who we are in any given moment, however, it is ultimately up to us who we choose to become.